Goodreads: It's Not Okay: Turning Heartbreak into Happily Never After by Andi Dorfman

Jul 6, 2016
Due to the lack of a new episode of the current season of The Bachelorette, it's time to re-explore one of my all time favorite Bachelorette's Andi Dorfman.

Andi first gained notoriety on Juan Pablo's season of The Bachelor after she dumped his ass after the fantasy suite and informed him, that, in fact "It's not ok!"

Andi was then cast as Bachelorette Number 10 and she fell head over heels in love with  and got engaged to Josh Murray on her season.

However, this love was not meant to last. Eight months after the couple got engaged everything blew up in Andi's face and the pair called it quits. 


Good Read Synopsis:

Andi Dorfman, star of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, talks candidly about what it's like to be courted by twenty-five handsome, single men in this juice, insider's peek at dating - and breaking up - on national TV. She shares entertaining and heartfelt stories about her fellow Bachelor alums - many of whom are still close friends - come clean about calling out Bachelor #18 Juan Pablo for bad behavior, and reflects on her personal challenges and uplifting experiences in love that she hopes will get you through your own break-ups with grace and style!

My Thoughts:

This tell all/self help book is a great read for not only Bachelor/ette fan, but for any woman who's gone through heartbreak. Andi chronicles her time from when she ended up on Juan Pablo's season to her recent breakup with Josh Murray and subsequent move to New York City. For fans of the franchise, this book is JUICY. She doesn't hold anything back in regards to her feelings on Juan Pablo (aka Number One), covers in detail her sexcapade with Nick Vial (aka Number Twenty Five) in the fantasy suite, and breaks down everything that went wrong in her relationship with Josh Murray (aka Number 26). Each chapter is laden with some pretty good (and funny) advice on how to get through a breakup. She even opens up about her dating past prior to reality TV for even more insight and advice. I've always liked Andi because she's always portrayed herself as a feminist with feelings. She does not deviate from this in her book. Be ready for sex, swearing, alcohol, and a post-breakup hook up revelation! 


  1. Being the bachelor fan that I am, I need to give this a read! I liked Andi too and was so bummed she and Josh didn't last!

  2. The only season of the Bachelor or Bachelorette that I didn't watch was Andi's! -Crystal

  3. I didn't get on the Bachelor/Bachelorette train again until last season, but I would love to rewatch Andi's season! She seems like somebody that I could relate to and would be fun to watch and read about!

  4. Andi was a great Bachelorette! Sounds like a book I should read!

  5. This looks great! Just added it to my TBR list!

  6. I love your gif files - you will have to teach me!!! I didn't watch Andi's season either...or at least I don't think I did. I will listen to the book if it is available on overdrive. What is up with the lack of episode though? I won't even remember who anyone is! ~K

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